HE DIVORCED HER IN 1978. SHE KEPT SINGING BACKUP FOR HIM FOR 28 MORE YEARS — UNTIL THE DAY SHE DIED. Bonnie Owens married Merle Haggard in 1965. She helped raise his four children from a previous marriage. She co-wrote “Today I Started Loving You Again.” She stood on stage beside him every night. They divorced in 1978. He married someone else within months. Bonnie stayed. Not as his wife. As his backup singer. She kept harmonizing behind the man who left her — for 28 more years. She never remarried. She never stopped showing up. Before Merle, she was married to Buck Owens. She helped build two of Bakersfield’s biggest careers and got footnotes in both. Bonnie Owens died in 2006. There’s no museum with her name. No biopic. No tribute album. Maybe that’s loyalty. Or maybe country music has always been better at remembering the man at the microphone than the woman standing three feet behind him.
He Divorced Her in 1978. She Kept Singing Backup for Him for 28 More Years Country music has a way of turning heartbreak into harmony. Sometimes, though, the story behind…