“YOU’D BE AN IDIOT NOT TO TAKE MY GUITAR AND MY BUS, AND SING MY SONGS FOR AS LONG AS YOU CAN.” A week before he died, Merle Haggard told his family something nobody believed at the time — he was going to die on his birthday. He wasn’t wrong. On April 6, 2016, the man who wrote “Mama Tried,” “Okie From Muskogee,” and “Sing Me Back Home” drew his last breath surrounded by family — exactly 79 years to the day from when he was born in a converted boxcar in Oildale, California. Standing closest to him was his youngest son, Ben. Ben Haggard had been at his father’s side for years — lead guitarist in The Strangers since age 15, the kid Merle joked people mistook for his grandson. Together they recorded Merle’s final song, “Kern River Blues,” on February 9, 2016 — just two months before the end. “He wasn’t just a country singer,” Ben wrote that night. “He was the best country singer that ever lived.” What Merle told Ben in those final days — about the guitar, about the bus, about what a son owes a father’s songs — became the quiet instruction that shaped everything Ben has done since. And the last thing Merle reportedly whispered before he stopped speaking? Ben has only shared it once. Most fans have never heard it.
Merle Haggard’s Final Gift: A Guitar, A Bus, And A Son Asked To Keep Singing “You’d be an idiot not to take my guitar and my bus, and sing my…