
I WAS JUST A KID STANDING SIDE STAGE.
I remember watching Toby Keith walk into the lights that night, and even now I can still feel that quiet shock run through me. To the crowd, it was just another sold-out show. Another night of hits. Another roar of applause. But to me, it felt unreal. I wasn’t thinking about my own set, or where my name sat on the lineup. I was standing there thinking, That’s Toby Keith. The same voice I grew up hearing. The same presence that made arenas feel smaller and songs feel bigger.
Opening shows for him before he passed in 2024 wasn’t just another tour credit. It felt like stepping into a moment you don’t fully understand until later. Watching him command the stage wasn’t about volume or ego. It was about gravity. He didn’t chase attention — it followed him. The crowd sang every word back, and I stood there realizing why I picked up a guitar in the first place.
But the part that stays with me didn’t happen under those lights. It happened on the bus in Richmond, the first time he told me to come up and hang out. I remember sitting there, holding a glass of Pendleton, thinking, I can’t believe I’m sitting here with Toby Keith. He talked about the road, about the USO tours, about life in a way that wasn’t polished or rehearsed. He wasn’t performing for me. He wasn’t lecturing. He was just sharing. There’s a difference.
That’s who he really was. Larger than life on stage, but steady and grounded when the boots came off. The kind of man who made space for the next guy without making a show of it. When we lost him, country music lost a legend. But some of us lost something quieter and more personal — a mentor, a door that had been opened, a voice that said without saying it, You belong here.
I’ll carry those bus conversations longer than any applause. Because sometimes the greatest thing a legend can hand you isn’t advice or a spotlight.
It’s a seat at the table.