About the Song

In the realm of timeless love songs, few melodies resonate as deeply as Perry Como’s “And I Love You So.” Released in 1973, this heartfelt ballad has become a staple of romantic playlists, its tender lyrics and soothing melody capturing the essence of enduring love.

Como’s velvety vocals, infused with warmth and sincerity, perfectly convey the song’s message of unwavering affection. The lyrics, penned by Don McLean, paint a vivid picture of a love that transcends time and circumstance. The narrator declares, “I’ve loved you so long, it’s plain to see,” emphasizing the depth and permanence of their devotion.

The song’s arrangement complements Como’s vocals beautifully. The gentle strumming of the guitar provides a soft backdrop, while the understated orchestration adds a touch of elegance. The melody itself is deceptively simple, yet it lingers long after the last note has faded, a testament to its enduring power.

“And I Love You So” has become a popular choice for weddings, anniversaries, and other romantic occasions. Its heartfelt lyrics and soothing melody create an atmosphere of intimacy and affection, making it the perfect accompaniment to moments of love and commitment.

Beyond its romantic appeal, the song also speaks to the universal human need for connection and affection. The narrator’s unwavering love, expressed with such sincerity and depth, serves as a reminder of the power of human connection and the transformative nature of love.

“And I Love You So” stands as a testament to Perry Como’s enduring legacy as a master of romantic ballads. Its timeless melody, heartfelt lyrics, and Como’s inimitable vocals have ensured its place among the most cherished love songs of all time.

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Lyrics: And I Love You So

And I love you so
The people ask me how
How I’ve lived till now
I tell them I don’t knowI guess they understand
How lonely life has been
But life began again
The day you took my handAnd yes I know
How lonely life can be
The shadows follow me
And the night won’t set me free
But I don’t let the evening get me down
Now that your around meAnd you love me too
Your thoughts are just for me
You set my spirit free
I’m happy that you doThe book of life is brief
And once the page is read
All but life is dead
That is my beliefAnd yes I know
How lonely life can be
The shadows follow me
And the night won’t set me free
But I don’t let the evening get me down
Now that your around me

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