About the Song
Country music legend Toby Keith is known for his anthems about patriotism, blue-collar life, and good times. However, with “The Other Side of Him”, Keith delves into the world of heartbreak, offering a poignant look at the aftermath of a lost love.
Released in 2013 on Keith’s album Drinks After Work, the song paints a vivid picture of a man witnessing his ex-lover with a new partner. The lyrics, filled with raw emotion and vivid imagery, capture the sting of seeing someone you once loved move on. Lines like “Standing on the other side of him, a little dress I didn’t know” and “Something new done to her hair, was a girl I used to hold” showcase the narrator’s struggle to accept the new reality.
“The Other Side of Him” isn’t a song about anger or bitterness. It’s a quiet reflection on the enduring power of love and the lingering pain of loss. The melancholic melody, featuring a prominent acoustic guitar, complements the introspective lyrics. Keith’s signature baritone voice delivers the emotions with a sincerity that resonates with listeners who have experienced similar heartbreak.
While not one of Keith’s chart-topping hits, “The Other Side of Him” showcases his ability to connect with listeners on a deeper level. It’s a relatable song for anyone who has ever grappled with the complexities of love and loss. The song finds its place alongside other country ballads that explore heartbreak with honesty and vulnerability.
Whether you’re a longtime Toby Keith fan or simply appreciate a well-crafted country ballad, “The Other Side of Him” is a song worth listening to. It’s a reminder that even the toughest cowboys have a heart, and sometimes, even they experience the pain of a love lost.
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Lyrics: The Other Side of Him
Standing on the other side of him, a little dress I didn’t know.
Something new done to her hair, was a girl I used to hold.
As close as we once were, further than I’ve ever been.
She’s a million miles away standing on the other side of him.Nothing but a ghost of the love we used to know.
They say that’s the way it goes when it don’t go easy.
Guess I brought it on myself. She loves someone else.
And I can’t help but wonder if she sees meStanding on the other side of him, broken as I can be.
Wishing it was him standing on the other side of me.
I don’t have to wonder where she is, who she’s with, or how she’s been.
I see all I need to see standing on the other side of him.Nothing but a ghost of the love we used to know.
They say that’s the way it goes when it don’t go easy.
Guess I brought it on myself. She loves someone else.
And I can’t help but wonder if she sees me.Standing on the other side of him. Further than I’ve ever been.
She’s a million miles away, standing on the other side of him.Oh, oh.