American R&B, Funk, and Soul musician Marvin Gaye performs onstage during the 'Sexual Healing' tour at Radio City Music Hall, New York, New York, May...

About the Song

In the realm of soul music, few names resonate with the power and passion of Marvin Gaye. His voice, an instrument of raw emotion, soared through the airwaves, carrying tales of love, loss, and the human experience in all its complexities. Among his many enduring classics, “Sexual Healing” stands as a beacon of hope and sensuality, offering solace to troubled souls and igniting a fire in the hearts of lovers.

Released in 1982, “Sexual Healing” emerged as a beacon of hope amidst a world grappling with the harsh realities of the early 1980s. Gaye’s soulful plea for emotional and physical connection resonated deeply with listeners, offering a balm for the weary hearts of a generation yearning for love and solace. The song’s opening notes, a gentle cascade of piano keys, set the stage for Gaye’s impassioned vocals, his voice imbued with a vulnerability and longing that touched the very core of listeners’ emotions.

“Sexual Healing” is more than just a love song; it’s an anthem for emotional liberation and self-discovery. Gaye’s lyrics paint a vivid picture of a man seeking solace and connection in the arms of a lover, his desire not merely for physical gratification but for a deep and meaningful emotional connection. The song’s chorus, with its repeated refrain of “Sexual healing, baby, is good for me,” becomes a mantra, a declaration of the healing power of love and intimacy.

Gaye’s performance on “Sexual Healing” is nothing short of legendary. His voice, imbued with a raw emotion that is both tender and powerful, conveys the depth of his longing and the urgency of his plea. The song’s instrumentation, a blend of soulful grooves, funky rhythms, and understated strings, perfectly complements Gaye’s vocals, creating an atmosphere of intimacy and sensuality.

“Sexual Healing” has transcended its status as a mere song; it has become a cultural touchstone, a symbol of love, hope, and the transformative power of music. Gaye’s legacy lives on in this timeless masterpiece, a testament to his enduring artistry and his ability to connect with listeners on a profoundly emotional level. As the world continues to grapple with challenges and uncertainties, “Sexual Healing” remains a beacon of hope, offering a reminder of the healing power of love, connection, and the human spirit.Marvin Gaye, 1970.

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Lyrics: Sexual Healing

Get up, get up, get up, get up!
Wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up!Oh, baby now let’s get down tonightOoh baby, I’m hot just like an oven
I need some lovin’
And baby, I can’t hold it much longer
It’s getting stronger and strongerAnd when I get that feeling
I want sexual healing
Sexual healing, oh baby
Makes me feel so fine

Helps to relieve my mind
Sexual healing baby, is good for me
Sexual healing is something that’s good for me

Whenever blue teardrops are fallin’
And my emotional stability is leaving me
There is something I can do
I can get on the telephone and call you up baby

And honey I know you’ll be there to relieve me
The love you give to me will free me
If you don’t know the thing you’re dealing
Ohh I can tell you, darling, that it’s sexual healing

Get up, get up, get up, get up
Let’s make love tonight
Wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up
‘Cause you do it right

Baby, I got sick this mornin’
A sea was stormin’ inside of me
Baby, I think I’m capsizin’
The waves are risin’ and risin’

And when I get that feeling
I want sexual healing
Sexual healing is good for me
Makes me feel so fine, it’s such a rush
Helps to relieve the mind, and it’s good for us

Sexual healing, baby, it’s good for me
Sexual healing is something that’s good for me
Well, it’s good for me and it’s so good to me my baby, ohh

Come take control, just grab a hold
Of my body and mind, soon we’ll be making it, honey
I’ll be feeling fine,
You’re my medicine, open up and let me in
Darling, you’re so great, I can’t wait for you to operate

I can’t wait for you to operate

When I get this feeling
I need sexual healing
Oh when I get this feeling
I need sexual healing
I gotta have sexual healing, darling
‘Cause I’m all alone
Sexual healing, darling
Till you come back home

Please don’t procrastinate
It’s not good to masturbate

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