You Don't Own Me,' A Feminist Anthem With Civil Rights Roots, Is All About Empathy : NPR

About the Song

Lesley Gore’sYou Don’t Own Me” was far ahead of its time. Released in 1963, it was a bold and defiant statement against the societal expectations placed on women. Gore, with her youthful voice and powerful delivery, transformed a simple pop song into a feminist anthem.

The lyrics are a direct challenge to the patriarchal norms of the era. They assert independence, individuality, and the right to make one’s own choices. Gore’s refusal to conform to the role of a submissive woman was groundbreaking, and it resonated with countless listeners who felt similarly constrained.

Musically, the song is a catchy pop tune with a driving rhythm. The arrangement is simple yet effective, allowing Gore’s vocals to take center stage. This contrast between the strong lyrical content and the upbeat melody made the song even more powerful.

You Don’t Own Me” has had a lasting impact on popular culture. It has been covered by numerous artists, and its message continues to be relevant today. The song is a reminder of the progress that has been made in women’s rights, while also serving as a call to action for continued equality.

Lesley Gore: “You Don't Own Me” – (Travalanche)

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Lyrics: You Don’t Own Me

You don’t own me
I’m not just one of your many toys
You don’t own me
Don’t say I can’t go with other boysAnd don’t tell me what to do
Don’t tell me what to say
And please, when I go out with you
Don’t put me on display ’causeYou don’t own me
Don’t try to change me in any way
You don’t own me
Don’t tie me down ’cause I’d never stayI don’t tell you what to say
I don’t tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That’s all I ask of youI’m young, and I love to be young
I’m free, and I love to be free
To live my life the way I want
To say and do whatever I pleaseAnd don’t tell me what to do
Oh, don’t tell me what to say
And please, when I go out with you
Don’t put me on displayI don’t tell you what to say
Oh, don’t tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That’s all I ask of youI’m young, and I love to be young
I’m free and I love to be free
To live my life the way I want
To say and do whatever I please

You Missed

THE DISEASE WAS STEALING HIS MEMORY. SO GLEN CAMPBELL WALKED INTO A LOS ANGELES STUDIO AND RECORDED A SONG CALLED “I’M NOT GONNA MISS YOU.” By 2011, Glen Campbell’s family already knew the truth. Alzheimer’s had entered the house. At first, the public saw the announcement. Then came the farewell tour. It was supposed to be a goodbye, but it turned into something larger: Glen onstage, still smiling, still playing, still finding songs even as the disease began taking names, places, and pieces of the man fans thought they knew. The cameras followed. The documentary Glen Campbell: I’ll Be Me captured the road, the family, the confusion, the flashes of humor, and the nights when music still seemed easier for him than ordinary conversation. Then came January 2013. At Sunset Sound in Los Angeles, Glen recorded what would become his final song. Julian Raymond helped write it with him. Members of the Wrecking Crew were there — musicians tied to the old Los Angeles world Glen had come from before he became a country-pop star. They cut it in four takes. The title sounded almost cruel at first. “I’m Not Gonna Miss You.” But that was the point. Alzheimer’s would hurt the people who loved him more than it would let him understand the loss. The song was released in 2014 with the documentary. It was nominated for an Oscar. It won a Grammy. Glen Campbell did not get a clean farewell. He got one last recording session before the disease took too much of the room.